A Killer Strategy To Get Your Ex Back

4 Reasons You Should Not Rush in to Get Your Ex Back Elvis Presley, you know, the KING of Rock-n-Roll, said it best. “Fools rush in.” You love your ex. There’s no doubt about that. You can’t just turn it off because she’s decided it’s over. But if you go all gung ho and rush

4 Reasons You Should Not Rush in to Get Your Ex Back

Elvis Presley, you know, the KING of Rock-n-Roll, said it best. “Fools
rush in.” You love your ex. There’s no doubt about that. You can’t just
turn it off because she’s decided it’s over. But if you go all gung ho and
rush right in demanding a second chance, you might just end up pushing her
into taking out a restraining order to keep you at arm’s length. That’s
the last thing you want to happen if you’re serious about getting her
back. But, did you know there are other reasons to wait a little while
before trying to win her heart all over again? Here are a few of my
personal favorites.

1) Absence really does make the heart grow fonder. She needs a little bit
of absence from you in order to appreciate how much you did bring to the
relationship — and to her on a personal level. She needs the chance to
get over the hurt and anger and start remember the fun, funny, and
slightly quirky things you did that brought a smile to her face and made
her feel loved by you.

2) You get a little distance from the pain. In the
moments when your heart is truly breaking, all you can focus on is the
pain. You want the pain to end. Since the breakup was what has caused the
pain, getting her back should make it go away. Right? Not necessarily. It
may provide a temporary balm, but it’s better to get a little distance so
you can be certain you really want her back or if moving on might be the
better path for you.

3) Allows you time to consider your options. You
don’t have to get her back. Even if you do, you may decide that changes
need to be made on your end of the relationship. How much, after all, have
you really been getting from the relationship? Are you getting as much
from it as you put into it? If not, what kinds of changes do you plan to
make?

4) Provides you with the perfect opportunity to devise an effective
strategy.
You may not be up-to-date on the latest strategy to get your ex
back, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t take a little time to brush up
on your technique. You may even be surprised to learn that having a
strategy for getting back together with your ex greatly improves the odds
of success.

Don’t float around in a haze of pain begging her for a second chance at
every turn. It’s not good for your self-esteem or your image. More
importantly, it won’t melt her heart the way you hope. Instead, sit back,
relax, get your bearings. Then let me help you come up with a killer
strategy that will have her eating out of the palm of your hands before
she knows what’s hit her.

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