Have You Decided To Win Your Ex Back?
Trying to Get Your Ex Back – Is This Standing in Your Way? It’s not easy to be on the outside looking in at what used to be your path to happily ever after. Being unceremoniously dumped without anyone asking your permission, not only hurts, but it also makes your entire world feel as though
Trying to Get Your Ex Back – Is This Standing in Your Way?
It’s not easy to be on the outside looking in at what used to be your path
to happily ever after. Being unceremoniously dumped without anyone asking
your permission, not only hurts, but it also makes your entire world feel
as though it’s spiraling out of control. Your solution to the problem is
You have decided to get your ex back. You’ve thrown all your heart, soul,
and energy into the coffers and, yet, you’re still not seeing a
satisfactory return on your investment. If anything, the cold shoulder
your ex has been giving you just keeps getting shoulder. What’s going
wrong in your efforts to win your ex back? Perhaps, it’s one of these
common, but fixable, hiccups.
You’re Trying Too Hard
You want results and you feel that this is worth an all-out effort on your
part. Unfortunately, what your ex needs right now is a little bit of
emotional distance from the situation. Sometimes absence really is all it
takes to make the heart grow fonder. You just have to give the absence the
opportunity to happen. Step back. Scale things down completely and let
your ex get a taste of what life is really like without you in it.
Making all the Wrong Moves
At least, that’s what it feels like is going on. Every move you make feels
like it’s pushing your ex further and further away. The thing is, it’s not
the moves you’re making that are the problems. It’s the fact that you’re
making them. Stand down. Give your ex a chance to breathe a little. Use
this time wisely to come up with a plan of action designed to get your
ex’s attention in a really positive way when the timing is right.
Moving a Little Too Fast
This is quite common. Your heart is telling you to get in there and “Nip
it in the bud!” You don’t want to hear any more of this breakup talk. You
want to end it all, right now and get on to the infinitely more enjoyable
making up talk. There’s a reason Barney didn’t get a loaded gun and that
he was only given ONE bullet. Your heart means well but it doesn’t always
steer you in the right direction.
If none of these things work to get your ex back, then what will? It takes
a well-planned and executed attack to win your ex back after a breakup.
You must spend some serious time planning your strategy and paying
attention to the little details. More importantly, it takes knowing what
to do next. A second chance is just that — a chance. If you want to make
it work, a second time around then you need a little magic on your side. I
can help with that!