Here’s What You Need to do to Get Him Back
Stop Listening to Your Girlfriends – Here’s What You Need to do to Get Him Back You love ‘em dearly. You know your girlfriends have your back. But, when it comes to tactics to get your ex back, they just may be steering you in the wrong direction. They could, well meaning as they may
Stop Listening to Your Girlfriends – Here’s What You Need to do to Get Him Back
You love ‘em dearly. You know your girlfriends have your back. But, when
it comes to tactics to get your ex back, they just may be steering you in
the wrong direction. They could, well meaning as they may be, even be
hurting your chances of success.
Getting dumped by the boy you still love is one of the most difficult
things a girl can go through. When it’s all said and done, you have one
though on your mind – getting him back.
Your girlfriends have been there to hear you out. They’ve given you
shoulders to cry on. They’ve even shared their super secret chocolate
stashes with you to help you get through this crisis in your life.
Now, they’re offering you the best advice they have to give on how to get
him back. Unfortunately, their advice is based on the rules girls play by
and they aren’t going to be all that effective at getting him back. If you
really want to win him back, you’re going to have to play the game by his
rules – to some degree.
Playing a Girl’s Game with the Boy’s Rule Book
1) Never let him see you coming. Your number one priority right now is to
get him back. That means you have to dedicate yourself to the task. But,
you have to do it in a way that doesn’t look like you’re trying to get him
back. Don’t show your hands because he’ll constantly be watching and
waiting for you to make your move.
2) Show the world you’ve moved on. This includes your girlfriends. Smile.
Go out and join the crowd. Fake it until you have everyone convinced that
you truly have moved on.
3) Let him know you’ve got game. All the time that you’re trying to show
everyone you’ve moved on, you need to invest in making yourself over from
the inside out. Become the stronger, more independent woman you’ve always
wanted to be. Get a makeover. Change your hair style. Learn to walk in
those six-inch heels guys love so much. Become confident in your own skin.
Once you’ve accomplished all this – then you let him see you coming and
watch the fireworks as he takes in the new you.
Why is this so Effective?
In relationships, you often begin to take each other for granted. The more
you learn about each other, the fewer mysteries there are to uncover.
You’re presenting him with a whole new you and many more mysteries to
unlock. It’s a curious mystery he’s powerless to resist – especially if
there ever were genuine feelings on his part. And your girlfriends? They
love you regardless of whether you take their advice or not.