How Does A Girl Know If Her Guy Loves Her?

How Do I Know He Loves Me? From childhood games with folded paper fortune tellers to Whitney Houston blaring from your ear buds, girls have been asking the same question for eons. As long as love has been a concept in the hearts and minds of humanity, this question has been asked by women. Men

How Do I Know He Loves Me?

From childhood games with folded paper fortune tellers to Whitney Houston
blaring from your ear buds, girls have been asking the same question for
eons. As long as love has been a concept in the hearts and minds of
humanity, this question has been asked by women.

Men aren’t known for being open about their feelings. Some men are more
open than others and sometimes it feels like he’s telling you what he
thinks you want to hear rather than how he really feels. So, how can you
really know if he loves you? These are a few hard to mistake signs.

He Reaches Out to You

We live in a day and age where communication is nearly constant. And, yet,
for many women it seems like you’re always the one reaching out. If he is
the first one to

• Call
• Text message
• Instant message
• Instagram
• Send messages on Facebook
• Email

the odds are great that he really has feelings for you he wants to
explore. Men who are ambivalent rarely make the first move. They certainly
don’t go out of their way to send you messages in the morning or call you
up out of the blue just to see how your day is going.

He Tells You He Loves You

The “L” word is difficult for many men to utter. Just trying to say it,
for some men, makes them feel like their tongues have suddenly become
glued to the tops of their mouths. You know, the peanut butter dry mouth
syndrome. Even when they feel genuine love for you, it’s nearly impossible
for men to be the first to make that declaration. If he says he loves you,
chances are, he really does. Don’t expect him to make Herculean efforts,
in your eyes, to prove it. From his perspective, just saying it was
Herculean enough.

He Deals with Your Friends and Family

Men don’t often tolerate uncomfortable scrutiny. The fact that he’s
willing to be put on the chopping block of public opinion with your
friends and family says a lot about where his heart is. If he keeps going
back for more punishment, you’ve got a real keeper on your hands.

At the end of the day, though, it doesn’t matter how often he tells you,
what he puts up with to show you, or whether or not he makes the first
move. What matters most is whether or not he makes you feel loved BY HIM.
No amount of sweat talk or sincere gestures on his part are going to
convince you if you don’t feel the love he professes.

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