How to Make Up Fast Before You Break Up

How to Make Up Fast Before You Break Up Breaking up is hard on everyone involved. If you’re interested in hanging on to your relationship, then the best solution is to prevent the breakup in the first place. Preventative action can save you both the heartache of a breakup and the lengthy recovery and reconciliation

How to Make Up Fast Before You Break Up

Breaking up is hard on everyone involved. If you’re interested in hanging
on to your relationship, then the best solution is to prevent the breakup
in the first place. Preventative action can save you both the heartache of
a breakup and the lengthy recovery and reconciliation process. More
importantly, it can help prevent many damaging words and actions before
they ever happen. But, how do you stop something that seems almost
inevitable?

Communicate More Effectively

Guys and girls have this Mars and Venus issue when it comes to
communication. John Gray, Pd.D. even wrote a book about it back during the
early 1990’s. The book was on the bestseller lists for an unprecedented
121 weeks because the concept was so simple, and yet, so foreign.
Sometimes, the best solutions really are the simplest.

The problem, according to this book, is that men and women communicate
differently. What one person is saying (or intends to say) is not always
what the other person in the relationship hears. This miscommunication
often causes the perception of problems or issues in the relationship that
only exists in the minds of the two people in the relationship. That’s why
learning to communicate effectively is so important for the sake of your
sanity and your relationship.

Discover Your Love Languages

Everyone has a love language that best sums up the way the express love
and the way they best FEEL loved. The love languages include:

1) Words of affirmation
2) Physical touch
3) Quality time
4) Gifts of service
5) Receiving gifts

Taking the time to understand how you best feel and express love in
comparison to how your partner best feels loved and expresses love for you
can save a lot of hurt feelings, cold shoulders, disagreements, and
knockdown, drag out, dish flinging arguments over the course of your
relationship.

Learn to Speak Your Partner’s Love Language and Accept Love from Your
Partner

You see, people don’t only have a little difficulty feeling loved by
partners that speak different love languages. In some cases, they have a
difficult time accepting love in that language. This leads to feelings of
alienation, confusion, and inadequacy for partners and drives a wedge into
the relationship.

Learning to accept the love your partner has to offer while also learning
to show love in a manner that will make your partner feel loved and
cherished are equally important components when it comes to love
languages. They are just as important as being able to make your partner
feel the LOVE you have.

Love languages are great, but they do take time to work with and to become
effective tools for saving your relationship from impending breakup. There
are other options to consider if you need more immediate results.

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