It Only Takes One Trick to Win Her Back

Moving Mountains isn’t Necessary – It Only Takes One Trick to Win Her Back Getting your girlfriend back may seem like the most difficult task on the planet. It doesn’t have to be though. Many guys make it much more difficult than is necessary. You see, you’ve been led to believe, mostly in Hollywood movies

Moving Mountains isn’t Necessary – It Only Takes One Trick to Win Her Back

Getting your girlfriend back may seem like the most difficult task on the
planet. It doesn’t have to be though. Many guys make it much more
difficult than is necessary. You see, you’ve been led to believe, mostly
in Hollywood movies and by the makers of fine jewelry, chocolate, and
greeting cards, that this is the way it’s supposed to be. That isn’t the
case at all.

In fact, once the girl leaves, the average relationship may seem
irrevocably broken, but there are still easy tips you can follow that
really will help you get her back. Here are a few things you should
remember if you really want to win her back.

Stop Living in the Past

Turn of the century American Author, Alice Morse Earle, once wrote:
“Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That’s why
it is called the present.” Living in relationship past robs you both of
all the joy of each day together when you’re in the relationship. Now that
she has left, however, it can rob you of a clear perspective on what needs
to be done now in order to save the relationship and make it work this
time around.

Become the Man You WANT to Be

This is hard for many men. It’s something you may not have given a lot of
thought to. Bruce Willis starred in a great movie called The Kid, where
the grown up man is confronted by his eight year old self. The eight year
old was horrified at the man he’d become saying, “So, I’m forty, I’m not
married, I don’t fly jets, and I don’t have a dog? I grow up to be a
loser.”

Sometimes there is wisdom in those childhood echoes. You may have given up
on the idea of flying jets (who really ever gives that one up though?),
but that doesn’t mean you can’t take steps to be the man you want to be —
even if that does involve learning to fly a jet. The first step is
deciding who you want to be. Then you must tackle the process of becoming
that man.

How does that Help You Get the Girl?

Life doesn’t always follow a movie script. You might have to wait a little
while to really get her attention. But, once you start making real,
notable changes in the man you are and stop trying to recapture a past
that wasn’t as picture perfect as you remember, you’ll be able to gain a
new outlook on the future. One thing is certain. Once you become the man
you WANT to be, the here and now, the PRESENT, is something she’ll WANT to
be part of.

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