The Lost Art Of Flirting And Teasing
The Lost Art of Flirting – How to Drive Him Wild With or Without Words When you first started dating, flirting came easily. Almost every tilt of your head, bat of your eyelashes, and word you said was some form of flirtation. Whether your intention was sheer playfulness or some form of subtle seduction, flirting
The Lost Art of Flirting – How to Drive Him Wild With or Without Words
When you first started dating, flirting came easily. Almost every tilt of
your head, bat of your eyelashes, and word you said was some form of
flirtation. Whether your intention was sheer playfulness or some form of
subtle seduction, flirting was the language of the day – and what an
effective language it was!
Over time, you left your flirting ways behind. Whether it was the fact
that you felt confident in your “catch” or you simply thought you’d moved
beyond the playful beginnings into a more serious and “adult”
I say “Hogwash!”
You don’t have to give up playfulness and fun simply because you’re now
married. You may have caught the prize you sought but that doesn’t mean
you don’t need to work a little bit to keep his interest and attention.
Subtle and not-so-subtle flirting reminds your husband that you are still
interested, makes him feel desired by you, and reminds you just how much
fun being in a relationship can be. The more marriage feels like fun, the
less it will feel like work.
It may have been a while since you’ve flirted with your husband. Here are
a few reminders about old tricks, and perhaps a few new tricks, that will
drive him wild.
* Leave naughty little notes in his lunch box. It will perk up his day and
let him know that you’re thinking of him.
* Send sexy text messages to him
while he’s at work. There’s nothing that will have him raring to go when
he gets home faster than little teasers throughout the day of what’s to
come when he gets home.
* Dress to impress on your next date night. You
know what he likes. Give it to him. It costs you nothing and lets him know
you still think he’s worth impressing.
* Play footsie with him! Sounds a
little silly but it can really get his engine going.
* Smack his bottom. It worked for Austin Powers! More importantly, it tells him you’re still
* Touch him. Even non-sexual touching is a huge turn on for
guys. Remember when you first started dating? You went for any excuse just
to touch him. Whether it was touching his arm, laying your head on his
shoulders, or just holding hands you couldn’t get enough of touching him.
Over time, things cooled down and touch became perfunctory. Make it fun
and flirty all over again.
* Tell him what you want – what you really,
really want in a place where he’ll have to wait to get it. It will be on
his mind the entire time and the anticipation will light real fireworks
when you’re finally able to make good on that whispered promise.
Flirting might be a lost art, but you can bring it back into your
marriage. If you’re going through a bit of a dry spell, this may very well
be the cure. At the very least, it will return an old dynamic to your
relationship that may yield surprising results.