What Do Men Require From The Women They Love?
What Do Men Need from the Women They Love? Men really do have simple needs when it comes to relationships. Despite their resistance to change, men have adapted well to the falling away from “love, honor, and obey” (mostly the obey part of that to be honest) as the commandment of all things relationship. However,
What Do Men Need from the Women They Love?
Men really do have simple needs when it comes to relationships. Despite
their resistance to change, men have adapted well to the falling away from
“love, honor, and obey” (mostly the obey part of that to be honest) as the
commandment of all things relationship. However, that doesn’t imply that
they don’t have needs of their own that must be addressed in order for
them to remain happy in their marriages. In fact, men have very strong
needs – though he’ll likely never explain them to you. There are three
overriding needs, though, that every girl needs to understand and meet in
order to have a truly happy relationship with the man she loves.
1) Show Him Respect
You don’t have to bow down before him or anything like that. You don’t
even need to defer to him, although, at the proper moments in the
relationship this can really stroke his ego and make him fall even harder
in love with you. The main ways to show respect are in how you interact.
Don’t talk down to him. Don’t make him feel inferior. And for goodness
sakes, avoid criticism — especially in the form of nagging — at all
costs. This makes him feel as though you’re looking down on him and lack
respect for him. It leads to “greener grass syndrome” and other negative
feelings about you and your relationship.
It’s hard ladies, to get him to do what you want sometimes. That’s usually
a sign that he really doesn’t want to do the job – whatever the job may
be. So, you have three choices that don’t involve nagging. Make him an
offer that makes it worth his while to get the chore done by a specific
time or date, do it yourself without holding a grudge (which may be easier
said than done), or hire someone else to do it for the sake of the
relationship. Even when money is tight, it’s sometimes better to pay
someone else to do the jobs neither of you are willing to do, but both
want done. The respect you’re both able to maintain for each other by
doing this is worth its weight in gold.
Think long and hard. When was the first time you paid your handsome man a
compliment? How about flirting? Do you engage in a little active flirting
when you’re out in public, riding in the car, through text messages at the
office? When was the last time you let him know that you still think he
rocks his Levi’s? Little things like this make a huge difference to the
man in your life and in your relationship.
Never let him doubt your loyalty. There’s no bigger relationship killer
for men than this. Don’t flirt with his best friend – or anyone else for
that matter – in an attempt to make him jealous. It will backfire on you
every time. Don’t let him overhear you talking negatively about him around
the girls. Show loyalty at all times and you can expect to receive the
same kind of loyalty from him in return.
Don’t believe me? Try it out and see how quickly things change between you
– for the better.