Why Do Women Want Divorce?

Why Do Women Leave Marriages? If you look at the statistics about divorce, they are often quite shocking. According to the Huffington Post, women are 2/3 more likely to ask for a divorce than men are. The real question though, is why are women more likely to walk away from a marriage than men are?

Why Do Women Leave Marriages?

If you look at the statistics about divorce, they are often quite
shocking. According to the Huffington Post, women are 2/3 more likely to
ask for a divorce than men are. The real question though, is why are women
more likely to walk away from a marriage than men are? The opinions on
this vary greatly. However, these are a few of the most common reasons
women ultimately ask for divorce.

Cheating Husbands

A man who is cheating on his wife, doesn’t necessarily want out of the
marriage. If he can have his cake and eat it on the side, he’s not
inclined to rock the boat. If the shoe is on the other foot, however, and
the husband finds out his wife is cheating, the story is a little
different, though many men don’t consider cheating to be quite the same
betrayal the average woman does. Of course, not all marriages where the
husband cheats end in divorce. It is, though, really difficult for women
to move past, even if they initially try to work things out after the
cheating occurs.

Money Matters

Money, in the Bible, is called the root of all evil. Whether or not you
agree with that particular assessment, it is the number one cause of
divorce and breakups worldwide. Women want security in their marriages.
That includes financial security. It’s not always a matter of men not
making enough money, but may very directly be related to how you spend
and/or save money.

Needs Not Met at Home

This is the primary reason women cheat and one of the big contributing
factors to a woman seeking divorce. It’s also more than a little unfair to
the man because women are often not likely to tell you what those needs
are so that you do have a chance to meet them. It’s difficult for women,
who are generally more intuitive than men are. She thinks you should
somehow know what those needs are and is upset, and often hurt, that you
aren’t meeting them. The trick here is to find out what her needs are. Ask
her if you must, and make sure you’re meeting them at every opportunity to
do so.

Reality doesn’t Live up to Expectation

Men have a hard road job here. Before marriage, you work hard to woo your
wife. You’re always doing little things in an effort to get her attention
and make her your wife. Once she’s your wife, you often stop aiming to
please in many ways. She’s grown to expect those things from you and
you’ve stopped delivering. It’s the same level of disappointment you feel
when she stops working so hard to stroke your ego. Real life often comes
in and kicks all expectations of what married life will be like in the
teeth.

Understanding why women leave can help you take the steps now to prevent
your wife from asking for a divorce. Now is the time to take action so you
can avoid the painful process of divorce and the risk of losing so much
more than the woman you love.

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