Why Is It So Hard To Think About The Next Relationship?
Why is it So Hard to Move On? You see some people go through breakups who seem completely unflappable. They never seem to lose their motivation or sense of self the way you have. You can’t figure out why you’re having such as hard time while other men just move on to the next girl
Why is it So Hard to Move On?
You see some people go through breakups who seem completely unflappable.
They never seem to lose their motivation or sense of self the way you
have. You can’t figure out why you’re having such as hard time while other
men just move on to the next girl and act as though their worlds haven’t
stopped turning altogether.
The truth is that for some men, the world hasn’t stopped turning. They are
able to move on because they never were fully invested in the relationship
to begin with. But you can’t seem to let go and move on. Is there a reason
you’re not able to put the past behind you and start to look towards the
future again? The truth is there might be three.
1) Your Heart isn’t In It?
Your head may be ready to move forward, get out there, and start playing
the field, but your heart still belongs to the girl that got away. Your
heart has you convinced that there’s still a chance, no matter how remote,
and you want to try to make it work. You’re still hoping to get her back
even if your head is telling you it can’t happen.
2) You Like What You Had
You’re not ready to give up on it. It was good between the two of you once
upon a time. You believe, if you could just get her to see things your
way, that it could be that good for the two of you again. It makes perfect
sense to want to recapture something good that’s gotten away from you. It
might even be possible. The place where you’re fuzzy is on how to make it
3) You Don’t Think it’s Really Over
You believe that she still have feelings for you. They may be buried deep
down inside, but you believe she still loves you. Chances are good that
you’re right. Unfortunately for you, seeing the cold shoulder you’ve been
getting lately, it seems like those feelings were buried very deep. The
longer things go, though, the more time she has to deal with those
feelings and put them to rest. That’s good news for you because if you
play your cards right and give her the space she needs, there’s a good
chance she’ll rediscover that love for you.
The thing to remember is that sometimes, it only takes going through the
motions of moving on to realize how you really feel. Or, perhaps more
importantly, to force her to confront how she really feels. While it’s
never good, to play head games with the girl you love, sometimes it helps
to let things ride a little while and see where circumstance take you.